Conan is still aware when people are around, but is not very responsive. Two days ago, when Gretta walked into the room, he greeted her right away, but that isn't what usually happens. We are still asking that you limit your visit to 10 minutes and 2 people.
Gretta is now 28 weeks pregnant. They found out she was pregnant about 5 weeks before the scan that revealed new tumor growth. Because of her pregnancy history, and her age, this is a high risk pregnancy. During her 22nd week of pregnancy, she was having sharp pains in her abdomen and so her doctor recommended modified bed rest: off her feet as much as possible and home from work.
Gretta has been the force behind Conan's treatments for years, that was a role he was never comfortable taking on. Luckily she is a pharmacist, because who else could keep all the meds straight! While she wasn't the one to drive him to all his appointments (she kept working when ever possible, which maintained insurance benefits, without which they would really be lost), she scheduled appointments and spent countless hours on the phone with doctors, nurses, billing offices, and the insurance company.
And, while it is a goal for Conan to be present for the baby's birth, a higher goal is for Gretta and the baby to be healthy. She can't assist with Conan's care much because she isn't supposed to lift more than 10 lbs., but she is still the one talking with doctors and nurses, and trying to get him to the best place he can be.
So if you see her, make sure she is in a recliner. Ask her if she took time to eat lunch. Get her to laugh.
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